Hey Soon2be,
I can understand where you're coming from. A few years back I was dating a guy and then out of the blue one day he crossed. He was wearing pari and was introduced to a whole new lifestyle that didn't include me. I was very hurt and disappointed. I didn't even know that he wanted to be in a BGLO. But what you have to consider is that it had nothing to with him not trusting you. Don't take it personally. It was a personal goal of his that he accomplished. Just show him support and be happy for him. Hope this helps. Take care!
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