Hey Men of Kappa Alpha Psi, I had to answer this one so please forgive guys:
I did at the time I was "intaking" (pledging is obsolete *wink*).
She knew though. But that is because we were living together and if I did not tell her she would have thought I was creeping.........
But to answer your question, you should NOT be mad. We are taught that DISCRETION is the key to joining a greek org. We are told to keep what you do on the low so things go smoothly. That is all your man is/was trying to do. Respect him for not being outfront about it. He was doing it for the luv of the fraternity that he seeks membership in.
Embrace him and make him feel your luv for him.
I'm sure he could use all the luv he can get right now lol.
GOD bless............
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