Thanks for your responses guys....I actually feel like I've went through recruitment so many times...I've visited almost every house more then 2 times and I've come to the conclusion that Kappas is the one I wanted to join. They always talked about girls having a hard time picking a house. But they mentioned having a certain feeling at the house you knew you could see yourself in. I'm hoping that they have COB after formal because if they don't I'm out of luck. I was told to mention to them that I'll be at school for another two years instead of one because it makes a difference. And they didn't this past spring because the house was already full. But with cob at our school, you only go one night to fill the spots that weren't for fall formal recruitment. BTW, what is a number cap?