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Personally, if you don't know who you are by yourself, how will you know anyone else AND yourself if you are in a relationship.
I may have been single and lonely without a "firm" relationship. But I dated, sporadically between my times... I call those flings. Flingin' it lasts for about 4-6 months sometimes a year. Then they become "cyclical relationships" that never amount to anything 'cuz the premise was to fulfill a need--ususally one that is physical, rather than self-soul-searching and reflection on oneself... IMO, it is rare a "fling" ever turns into a more meaningful relationship. I guess it's just the difference between how folks view relationships...
So I guess that's why folks say when a pertinent relationship ends, how can those persons learn from that relationship to move forward?
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