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So, I understand where you are coming form. I'm planning, for the past year, our 5-year reunion. It is our first landmark as a chapter and most of our almnae are coming back for it. It will be exciting, yet stressful for me.
I understand that you want things to be perfect. But you also seem disappointed that some sisters won't be present and I think that may be more important. I understand theme, and control of an event you've put so much love into, but that love for your sisters is much more than a formal. There are unfortunatly econmic constraints in the world and that needs to be part of your consideration. Ask for suit and tie, suggest that tuxs would be fun, but the most important thing is that everyone be present. Formal really is about the people, not the setting, location or dresses/tuxs, keep it about the sisterhood, not the finances.
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