It is not wrong to be offended, no.
As for their dates not wanting to wear them well it is a formal! Hiring a tux is not the most expensive thing. maybe the President can remind everyone of the fact lots of work has gone into it and it's a pivotal point in the sorority calendar and how the chapter looks to the sisters to support events for the success of the chapter as a whole?
Sounds like you're doing all you can.
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