Well, I wish you the best of luck when you rush. Keep an open mind. A good way to get to know brothers of a fraternity is to talk to one on campus during school...if you see a guy with letters on, stop and talk to him and tell him you are interested in joining a fraternity on campus. Also, if they have IFC (Interfraternity Council) you could try and contact the President and I'm sure he can give you tons of information. Once again, best of luck!