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Originally posted by Diamond Delta
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Also-ladies feel me on this. Why do we see so much more diversity in men's groups? Why can a campus have a fraternity of 50 and another fraternity of 20 and they are totally OK with that? I mean, I know when I was in school, the biggest sorority had like 150 members and the biggest fraternity had 80. But the sorority with 80 members was considered struggling. The fraternity with 30 guys wasn't considered struggling. If the sorority with 150 members had a social with the guys in the 80 member house-that is still weird. [/B]
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I think this is because of the total rule ... I mean because we have a number set by our panhellenic council that they feel the chapters should be at.. the ones below it (or at with other chapters WAAAAYYY over it) are not meeting a "standard" and therefore aren't "good chapters. It's really kinda psychological since you're given a goal if you're not meeting it then that's bad... esp. if other groups are.. it SUCKS becuase it's true the guys really don't notice (well they do) but they just join the house they feel most compfortable.. ( they see it as more of just a difference then something bad.. something to consider when joining and looking at the pros and cons of small V. larger)