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Originally posted by msn4med1975
Latina,
why are you still posting to this thread honey? The argument only briefly focuses on the topic before veering off. Whoever posted about folks being entrenched in their beliefs was right. Just leave these folks to their opinions.
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I think someone veered off topic when they started talking about straight outta compton parties.
And yes, people won't change their minds. But it just seems that some people have trouble accepting the fact that they have no control over this. In fact it got so ridiculous, that someone suggested a national program. I don't mean to bash that person, but come on. Who the hell are you to ask if a fraternity has a national program?? And it's not one person so I'm not mention one person - that is the mentality on this thread.
It comes down to this: The person who has control will form their opinion and will do what they feel is right. They are not in a fraternity for you nor do they have to justify their risk management, their party themes, etc. You are free to form your opinion on them. Others can form their opinion on you. And if you have an image developed - that is fine. That is an image that they'll have to fight for a while just like people might have an image of your fraternity/sorority.
-Rudey