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Originally posted by o2bame
With all do respect and I do mean that, and I am hoping that my reply will not piss anyone off because that is definitely not my intention. But why is it a problem when someone goes up to a newly crossed Delta and congratulate her? Or whats wrong if a prospect approaches a Delta in a respectful way to inquire information about her organization? I mean i hear people say all the time that it's good to establish a relationship with a Delta if you are a prospect. I'm just asking questions for honest clarity. Im not askin them to offend anyone or like I stated before to piss anyone off. I honesty just want to know. OR if it something I will never understand unless I become a Delta then i understand. Thanks.
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I do not see your question as disrespectful. A lot of times, folks come out the woodwork to congratulate that before when I was just Carla the student, president of Concerned Black Students, resident of whatever dorm, etc. etc. they would not speak and would even go so far as to say they did not like me, but when I became a Delta and that is where their interest was, they tried to get buddy buddy. THIS DID NOT HAPPEN to me but it happens quite a bit.
If you and I are cool or our contact was limited and you approach me after I became a Delta and congratulated me, THANKS
but some folks take that congratulations and try to sneak on in.
I am typing in a rush and probably not being very coherent.
Put it like this, suppose you won the lottery and not just like $1000 but like MILLIONS and all of a sudden you get all sorts of cousins, aunts, uncles, long lost sandbox friends, like HEEEEEEEEEY GIRL!!!! and only because you are a millionaire, how would you feel!?!?!? That's how we as Greeks feel SOMETIMES and NOT ALL GREEKS when we cross over and folks approach and trying to be our sidekicks.
If it ain't real, keep it moving.
