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Old 03-18-2004, 08:06 AM
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the shy guys are always tough- but when you talk to him- see how his body language is- if he's turned toward you- touching you- or even looking you in the eye- if he is doing this- he's interested (as a friend or more... thats different) ask him what he is doing this weekend- or how his weekend was.... talk about your plans for the next one.... remember what he said his plans were for the upcoming weekend.... the next class... ask him how his "insert plans here" went- and see if he opens up a little more... it helps to connect with them on very solid ground- and you can read him more- if he retracts and acts like your violating his space... then..well he's weird lol jk- but just read him a little- if he seems more interested- invite him out to do something or see if he wants to meet up sometime for a concert you mention- or whatever... some guys are REALLLYYY slow to pick up on things (sorry boys.... but it can be true) or others don't have much confidence (unfortunately- but we see this with girls too ) its awesom ethat you are going for it- good luck!!! and if he turns you down... then he might be scared... and you don't want to be the one to deal with gsetting him out of his shell.... you seem like an awesome girl- so have fun with it
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