If you asked me about 7 years ago, I woulda said HELL NO! I love kids and want kids of my own but I did not want a man with baggage (ie a psycho baby's momma).
Most men in their 30s and 40s that are divorced already have kids. But I said "No way in hell would I date a man with kids!"
Famous last words! I met a wonderful man...he had a child from his previous marriage. He has custody of him (the ex wife said, "you gimme the house, and I will give you the kid")
I ate my words...I married him a little over 2 years ago.
Trust me I have nothing but respect for people who say they won't get involved with someone that has kids. It took one hell of a guy for me to do it