I wouldn't date someone I was on and off with. Breaking up and going back out does not make a relationship stronger. It always makes it weaker. In fact sometimes those relationships can last forever because the strength of the emotions have been weakened. I see a lot of people do that.
I wouldn't necessarily eliminate soemone i liked just because they had a kid. I might not want to meet them if I knew they had a kid in advance. And I have no idea whether I would marry someone with a kid, I have never been in that position. However, I don't like the idea.
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Originally posted by XOMichelle
Ok, fo my boyfriend is divorced and has a 3 year old little girl (she's adorable). We've been on and off for a year and a half. Just when I think I've gotten over the child/ ex-wife factor, it creeps back into my mind, and I start thinking if I should break up with him or keep it going. I like him a lot, and he is one of the nicest cutest men I know, but I really really really don't want to be a stepmom. While marriage is a huge leap from where we are now (neither of us want to get married soon), I keep thinking, what's the point?
Would you date a man or woman with a child? Why or why not?
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