Good luck on all your visits. I hope you girls find the right home for you. I love Phi Mu just as much as the next person, but I kept my options open when I was looking for a sorority - and that's how I found Phi Mu. Best Wishes!!
Also, I wanted to say how impressed I am at how resourceful you are. You even came onto a site like this to talk to Phi Mu's. It's so great to see such an ambitious group looking into becoming Phi Mu. You have great energy! Keep it up!