When we do Coke Dates, we usually have 8-10 PNMs and 12-14 members and keep it very casual. There are definitely rules about how many PNMs and how many members can be on the coke date.
We call girls to invite them on Coke Dates and sign them up. Say I meet Susie PNM in my history class and think she's nice, I'd invite her to ice cream with some girls in my house on our scheduled Wednesday night event and then put her on the list.
It's kind of a complicated process.
PKTKKG, our chapter of Alpha Xi Delta is closing because of their numbers struggle for the past few years. Several of them have been on the cheerleading team with me and they're sweet girls, so it's sad to see them close. However, whereas our Greek system is really thriving right now (two of the three houses are only a few away from cap), it's become difficult to maintain four active houses. I'd love to see our system grow over the next few years and have the Alpha Xi house back on campus.