[GMUBunny]

I'm going to go ahead and be a broken record here- I believe that there are several people you can be compatible with. I have two of those in my life right now, but I chose to marry the one who came second. The first one is my absolute best friend and I believe he's more valuable to me that way. Of course, we had an agreement that if neither of us was engaged at 25, we'd get married. JR just happened to come into my life and sweep me off my feet. Granted, we've had our rough times. I'm a bit of a commitment-phobe and I left three times thinking that I would be happier that way. My heart always won out over my libido. I still have a hard time realizing that I'm committed to this one person and that I'll be with him forever (I'd better be, anyway!). I almost lost him last year and now I won't even take a chance on him walking away.