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Originally posted by AchtungBaby80
You sure hit the nail on the head there! It really annoys me when men whine about how they're so "nice" but women never see it and yada yada yada. Let me tell you, an alarming number of the self-proclaimed "nice" guys I've run into have turned out to be weirdos! (I'm talking stalkers here.) They think women don't notice them? Well, we do--it's just that I'd rather have a man that acts like a man! I don't want a "nice," "sensitive" guy--if I did, I would date women. I expect men to think and behave differently than I do, and if they don't, I start to wonder. Sure, a thoughtful gesture like roses or something every once in a while is lovely, but I don't like sappiness and the fact that many guys don't either is fine with me.
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Finally, someone who agrees with me on the whole self-proclaimed "nice guy" label.
Every guy I've ever known who's sworn up and down to be a "nice guy" has either ended up being a jerk or merely a sappy pushover who's so willing to let me control him that I can't stand to be around him. (Yes, guys, we don't always want to be leading the guy around by his dick--give us some sort of a challenge!)
One "nice guy" ended up ditching me for no reason and later on, sleeping with one of my co-workers and friends and then blowing her off, too. Real nice.
As for the other category of "nice guy," I know a guy who proudly announces to the world that he can't wait to be "so whipped" when he's married. *Gag* Grow a spine!!!