That's too bad that you do not feel you can recommend her for AI. I've been offered membership with a wonderful group of women. I was completely honest with them and told them I would be moving. When I mentioned that to the pres. of the Alum Association she basically said "Who cares?" because there is a collegiate chapter and an AA in the area where I will be moving. And, that this is for a lifetime. We just "clicked" and they want me to be a sister whether I live 5 minutes away or 500 miles. On the other hand, if you feel she wouldn't be able to contribute wherever she moves then it is probably best not to recommend her. I would just hate to see ADPi lose out on a woman who seems like she would be an incredible sister.