[veemers]

I think it depends on who you are. I believe in true love. I believe in sparks. I believe in love at first sight. So I'm not going to become romantically involved with someone when I don't feel something right away.

I have a friend who is the opposite. She believes that love is just finding someone with whom you are compatible. She also believes that a relationship grows and develops over the years.

Is it really so wrong to have it both ways here?

ETA: Or any sort of any way? Huh?