If you lock two people that hate eachother in the same room they will eventually start liking each other or at least feeling a deep bond. Its a species survival state.
Many arranged marriages grew into a deep connection, something we might call love.
But maybe thats a little different than the fireworks of genuine deep passionate romantic love?
Why not opt for both? But generally the romantic love comes first.
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Originally posted by PM_Mama00
I know a lot of people who didn't feel anything the first times. One couple is married and she couldn't stand her husband for like almost 8 years before they were together. One couple I'm sure will get married, and I know a few others that are like that, so it's not that abnormal for someone to grow on you.
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