Many of us have been there. If you know from jump they do not want a relationship with you but you are still falling for them maybe it is because you think you do not deserve a loving one-on-one relationship. Many of us have suffered from this thinking *including myself back in 1994*.
Do not sell yourself short by dealing w/ an unavailable man. I assume unavailable means he is committed to or involved with someone else. When you deal w/ him he gets everything he wants and you barely get emotional support because if he truly cared for your feelings he would not let you play yourself by dealing w/ him OR he would handle his business and make himself available.
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Originally posted by ChaoticRed:
Gals & Guys...
Why do we involve ourselves in relationships(sexual & casual) with people of the opposite sex that we know from the start are not going to work??
I mean, I am dating this guy that I am attracted to (physically and mentally) BUT, I know we could never be together exclusively(for several reason)...am I the only one dealing with this type of relationship???
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