I have had my share of "non progressive" relationships. We knew from jump that it wasn't going to work because various factors, yet stayed right in it. At this point in my life, I'm very pleased with my singleness, and just have male friends. These friends have absolutely no future with me....but they are good to have around to bounce ideas and such.
Dating is truly your time to sort out what you like from what you don't. Since I don't like certain things, I don't have to get serious with certain people. It's that simple. I'm friends with the incompatible, and will date (start out as friends of course) the possibly compatible. If I decide to be with the incompatible, against my own good knowledge, then I believe that I am then choosing that person based on my possible loneliness or other needs, and not because they are "right."
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