definitely stand up for what you believe in. And that is respecting your sorority or fraternity (not to mention the members). If they went against something that you all decided you wouldn't do, and it caused a conflict for your sorority or fraternity then they were not acting out of respect.
just because they are your "family" doesn't mean you don't follow your beliefs. Maybe not jumping up to point the finger ASAP, but if you are put in the situation where it's speak or disban, then I believe speaking up is good. If you are not in a dire situation, then I would only respond negatively about your sis or bro if asked.
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