i have a hard time believing in fate/destiny stuff. i dont know how i feel about having one true love. if fate was real, everyone would be happy and in the perfect relationship. but in reality the divorce rate has never been higher. i think that maybe god puts the right person in your life one time, and leaves it to your free will to do with that chance what you will. whether you take it, or leave it. As for the ones that have lost loved ones, and believe they were your "soul mate", i think that maybe thats gods way of letting you know what you deserve. you should never forget them and never accept anything less. if you are patient, one day you will find something so perfect that words will not be able to express. dont give up on something big just because you think it has already passed you bye. life is a funny, weird thing, and never goes in the direction you think it will. my life has been a trip. its what you make it, you can sit there and feel bad or get out and enjoy life while you have it. this life is just a test to get to something better. make the most of it.
