[aopirose]

I was a fraternity sweetheart and it came as a great surprise. My boyfriend, who was VP, at the time told me that I was selected because 1) I was a girlfriend, 2) helped the chapter when needed, and 3) every one really liked me. It’s not something that I sought out and no one that I know ever had that as a goal either. My advice is to chill. If they think that you are the one, they will ask you when they are ready.