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I hear ya netta.
GSS is referred to as our sisters and our sorors. We are that tight.
But let me go back to the brother issue. Whenever, a brother calls you a bruhror, they already know what you suppose to be called. They are just messing with you. If it is a none-member they are not use to the idea. If it is a brother, he can't tell you what he really wants to say, and the only thing that comes out is a name. I know because I called a male sister something one time. I will not repeat it, but it was because I didn't want to call him my soror or sister. It just didn't feel right. Have I converted? No. It will never feel right. But I've learn to deal with it better. I just don't label them at all, and call them by their name.
When you joined Alpha Phi Omega, you became not a brother. You are not a brother you are an Alpha Phi Omega brother. And that allows you to be called brother within this organization. Every female member should be considered a brother, only because Alpha Phi Omega defines their memberhip that way. It doesn't matter if its right or wrong, or even just feels wrong.
There is a national effort to place people in check, who expresses their disbeliefs on the female membership harshly. So if you will probably less able to tell how male members really feel, because their membership may even be threatend.
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