Hmm. This thread was extinct (ok, dormant) since 1902; until Kappa crow posted on it today. The bad cop in me can't help thinking if it hasn't been discussed on here in two years it's not that controversial.
I don't think there is any question of either group or set of members wanting to or trying to
pass themself off as the other.
For a start one is an Asian interest sorority and the other is an NIC fraternity and if the brother of Kappa Delta Phi on here is concerned he and his brothers may be mistaken for the
ladies of aKDP than he needs more help than he can get on this bulletin board.
Wasn't there another incidence of this that I heard about on GC ages ago? [After a brief search...] I believe Sigma Sigma Sigma sorority is known as Tri Sigma; but never Tri Sig as (
link) Tri Sig refers to a GLO geared toward women identifying as lesbian.