Comment to Neilhart: Don't be a jerk. Life is not about getting even.
Comment to Lost Sister: Sorry about your problems. I have known several frat guys that wouldnt sign a no-drinking pledge "requested" by national and they were made inactive and elgible for alumn status 2 years after grad. In the long run it worked out for them.
The real issue for you is the hurt and rejection you feel because your sisters would do this to you, which is understandable. This is something you will have to assess over time.
From the frat guys I know, they all became active alumns and forgot what happened and why. In your case you will have to decide what you want to do. If you aren't comfortable now, then you don't have to do anything now. You can always become active with the alumns at some point when you feel better about the situation.
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"It's a long long road, it's a big big world, we are wise wise women, we are giggling girls." ~Ani DiFranco~
[This message has been edited by Trish (edited November 14, 2000).]
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