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Originally posted by Taualumna
My grandmother was raised in Asia and COULD have had good polish as well. Instead, she chose to be what I call "Paris Hilton Lite" (in a 1930s-1940s kind of way...well, as close as you can get to that kind of life in a war situation). The definition of "good polish" in Asia and in the west may seem different, but in reality it really isn't so. My great-grandmother was definitely "polished" from what I understand. She picked her rice grain by grain instead of shovelling it into her mouth.
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What the hell are you getting at?
Wash she any worse a care-taker for you?
I'm sorry but did she abuse you? Starve you? Rent you out for sexual acts?
For this lack of "good polish" you wish you were raised by someone outside of your family?
And yes "polish" according to Chinese standards would be very differeny by Western standards. The west didn't have emperors with spit cups by their chairs for one.
Honestly stuff like this upsets me because I see you as someone with little to no pride. You walk with your head down. That is shameful. You probably deny who you are, deny the culture, the language, the stories, and more.
And back on point, because I really have no desire to deal with your lack of pride, who says this poorer family wouldn't be able to raise their child right? If it's not about money as you said earlier, then why wouldn't they be able to provide "good polish"? Nothing you're saying is making any sense.
-Rudey