You are definitely reacting in a normal and understandable way...and anyone who doesn't get that isn't worth your concern right now. Your kitty is in a better place (although I know you'd still rather she were with you) and I'm sure she knew how much you loved her. Maybe being away from your family let her feel like she could let go. I know cats are really sensitive about when and where they will choose for when they pass on, and most cats will go someplace out of the way to do so. I personally think it's because they know that if they're with their family, they won't ever be able to allow themselves to leave...they're around too many people who love them! I doubt this helps much, but just know that people here understand and are here for you. Big hug, I promise it'll get easier!
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