*Hijack* Why am I trying to keep from chuckling at #1LL's post about Lavita coming out?
Neways:
To T. and M.: OK. Looks like you are coming to the ball. But don't expect me to introduce you around like I'm proud or something. I will be busy and really don't want to get the vibe of of "another brotha got away"

especially when I'm not comfortable with y'all's situation.