It's so nice to hear there are other people in the same boat as me......Taualumna, I am going on 24 and have never been with a guy longer than 2 months!!! I sometimes wonder what is wrong with me but my friends tell me I just date the wrong guys. I'm pretty cute, have a degree, a good job and I live on my own.....but my best friend says it's my independence that scares guys off. Oh well. Can't try to be something I'm not.