it seems that when you are looking for commitment you try to make the wrong thing right, thats why you are afraid of commitment, you have not found that person yet. you fight because deep inside you know they are wrong, and you are just trying to protect yourself. its like wearing shoes that are 3 sizes too small, it just wont work. when you do find your partner it wont seem like commitment, it will just happen. one thing will lead to another and before you know it, boom, its been a few years. my advice is to just enjoy life and see where it takes you. my guess is it wont turn out bad at all. trust me.
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