No, you're done. You're toast. Give it up, invest in cats so that you can become That Cat Lady later in life and end up being eaten by your own animals after you die.
Think about it. You are finishing college where you had the largest access to available (albeit perhaps clueless) males all with an urge to mate, that you will likely ever have for the rest of your life.
Further, you even increased your probability of meeting a compatible male by joining a social organization that has as a major component the purpose of introducing you to men (mixers) in a pick-up environment.
So things are definitely not looking up for you.
Also, just to cap it off, you admit that its your own neurosis (fear of intimacy) that destructs your relationships. In other words, your fear of the very thing required for a relationship to work dooms you to a life of either being totally alone, or alone even in company.
And you didn't admit to being in therapy for that or reading self help books or anything. The future looks bleak
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Originally posted by azdtaxi
So my issue ... last week i turned 22 and I already feel old. I have neevr had a relationship for more than 5 months ... I start causing fights when I get to close to people. So I mean does it look like I am never getting married being so old and not in a relationship. It just seems crazy cause the only places I ever go out are bars where I already know everyone. Oh well any advice?
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