|
Okay, so I have a male friend who, in my eyes, is OBVIOUSLY gay. My Sands says that she doesn't think so. I told her her gaydar is defintely broken. Either way, he now says that gay men have been approaching him and he is considering basically "going all the way."
During the source of their convo, she tells him that when he does, to have respect for the women he meets and let them know he sleeps with men. Also, that if he knew someone that she was messing with, he'd better tell her.
He said he wouldn't and was dead serious. She was darn near in tears and tried to convey a sense or moral responsibility on this brothah. He was like "there's a code that can't really be broken." She was like, so my life being at risk becasue I am dating a man who sleeps with men is okay? He had no answer. He then proceedes to tell her he know many a married man who slept with men. Also that married men are the most sought after because they are hetero. The fact that he is hesitant with whomever is showing interest, he says, makes the guy even more adamant.
She was pissed because she knows Lynn Chamberlain, who had had AIDS for like over a decade b/c her boyfriend while at Tuskegee, was bisexual and didn't tell her.
New label in the "HIV/AIDS research world?" First it was MSM and now it's MSM/W...I say, just be gay, be out...
I know there are typoes but I just can't spell check right now...sorry.
|