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Originally posted by ilovemyglo
Okay, I know that there have been threads about sex before but no one has ever talked about STDs- the only reason I bring it up is because one of my really close friends just told me that she has Herpes... her boyfriend cheated on her and guess what.... I was totally horrified when she told me... and she was really upset- not only that she has this, of course, but that her boyfriend would cheat on her and she has to suffer for the rest of her life because of it.
The thing is, I have never known anyone who has had an STD except for a guy that had the clap, and that is curable. But what about one that isn't? I mean, seriously, she has to go pick up a prescription for it and everyone knows what that is used for (thanks to the advertising) and she feels like she can never have sex again.
They were together for months, so I guess they weren't using condoms... but still... I mean seriously, you can get something for FOREVER which is just hard to understand. SO I have been trying to help her get info on herpes and how it affects you. There was a lot I didn't know, but now I am educated and I know that no matter how long I am with my boyfriend I am ALWAYS using a condom...
Anyone know what I can say or do, and above all USE A CONDOM! I am just totally freaked out.
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I quit using condoms at the end of my first freshman year, it just got to the point where I couldn't get off anymore. Yes, it's dangerous, but I just didn't give a phuck. STDs aren't as big of a threat as people think they are, either that or I'm just really lucky. Its true about 20% of the people in this country have either Genital Warts or Herpes....one or the two. Believe me, I've done a lot of research on STDs. To my knowledge the only things you can't get rid of are Herpes, G.W., HIV/AIDS. Pennicillin will kill everything else. My theory on it all is, Herpes and GW wont kill you or make you sick. And if you get HIV/AIDS, unless you're Magic Johnson, you're phucked anyways.....so why worry about shit? These days you can't trust anyone when they tell you the number of people they've slept with. Seriously, people lie all the time about their number. If I intend to have sex with a girl I always tell them I've banged 7 chicks....but it's really around 10X that amount. Whatever number a girl tells a guy....we can usually tag at least 5 more on to that figure. People are nymphs, those that aren't just havent had someone bring the slut out in them....but its there.
As for your friend with the herpes...she'll get over it with time. Everyone has that initial freak-out stage, after awhile it goes away. And tell her to look at the bright side of things, if she finds someone with herpes it'll be all that much more better. But to be honest, I doubt thats the way she caught herpes. I mean you really should think about it.....she was probably being dirty phucking dudes without you knowing it and blamed it on her BF. Boyfriends cheating once on their GF and then giving them herpes right afterwards, that shit only happens on STD commercials. I know a lot of people, a lot more than you do. I've never heard of that happening to someone I know.....and I know people with HIV/Aids. My dick has been in and out of all kinds of pu$$y, I still havent caught Genital Warts or Herpes.....and I'm sexy. I doubt your friend is hot. I'm willing to bet she's a 4 or 5 at best....and I havent even seen the girl. U should think about it before you start worrying about catching something.
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