lionlove,
not sure if that insecurity and asking for help is the right wording!
I know My Chapter is going through some very hard membership times and I have suggested many Times to get IHQ involved. No, No, we dont want IHQ involved Well we as Alums dont either, but when push comes to shove, the bullet needs to be bitten!
At our last House Corp. meeting the few Actives we have were all pissing, moaning and crying about not having a House. Well, we are in the process of trying to get a new house built! Then the pissing and moaning started again about not having enough members to afford it!
My Response, "Well lets just notify IHQ to Close the Chapter".
Here again, not knowing what Chapter, Soroity, and School does give us on GC a little drawback of the Situation.
We can only speak in general terms!
I remember My Daddy telling me, "Boy Shit or Get Off The Pot"!
Think the same might apply here! They are trying to blow smoke up someones asses, but all they are doing is hurting themselves.