[AlethiaSi]

tom- i know what you are talking about- we've had problems with another sorority and i've asked advice about that- but not another pledge... i've never come across something as serious as this... otherwise i wouldn't have brought it up...i really don't want to bring about action against her- but i do have to agree with what a lot of you have said- one bad pledge can bring down the whole group and all of us- i don't want her giving us a bad name- and i don't particularly care for this girl- and i haven't even met her yet and that can't be good- esp since i've heard terrible things from many different trustworthy girls... this whole get to know you rush process is not without its faults i suppose so thats the chance that we all take- esp with my girls all being so close and we are a smaller group- its especially harmful to us.... i was thinking along the same lines as most of you- and i will pass along my advice to my girls...she has been warned a few times just that i know about... but i'm inactive so there isn't much i can do over here anyway.... thank you all again- i'm happy to see that i wasn't alone in my thinking in this situation....