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Originally posted by cash78mere
ok i realize this thread is super old but i didn't think i needed to start a brand new thread...
ladies...do you ask your guy to get tested? and do you get tested as well?
my boyfriend is fighting me on the fact of getting tested. procrastinating left and right. me...i already went to the doctor like i said i would. mind you i didn't think i had anything to worry about since he was my first. but i'm definitely not his first.
i am so frustrated.
what are your thoughts?
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When I was dating my first boyfriend I asked him to get tested because although he was my first, we had discussed his previous relationships and I was a little worried. Even though I was on the pill, there were a handful of times that..well...the condom never actually got the chance to make an appearance. He got really upset and pissed off that I would even suggest he had something and just like mr. cashmere procrastinated around it left and right until finally we broke up and I went and got myself tested just to be sure. I kicked myself after the fact that I should have been more forceful, take the sex away if you have to until he gets the hint and gets off his ass and gets tested.