I'm sorry to hear that!
But I can relate. We're getting ready to pledge soon to be the founding members of the beta chapter of a sorority. So far, we've lost 2 girls...one of which is my roommate. It's hard because you want those girls to be in it, but then you also have to be understanding...
You're not alone...but i'm always worried about losing more girls before we complete the pledge process.
*Siggie Jilly*
Any suggestions?