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For men to be men though, does being a man include not engaging with a woman in any other way than romantic/sexual??
For the people who believe Harry; is effectively what is being said (in the thread generally) that women will not really talk to a guy (or vice versa) unless they want and intend to have something non-platonic with them and if they do not then they will not ever speak to or engage with that person in anything more than a cursory manner (or professional manner if in workplace i.e. if they have to) and will not be or ever seek to be friends with them because that is an impossibility and the only engagement which might have otherwise been possible will not ensue because of the lack of attraction by the party.
As for the "if both parties are in relationships that's different" supposed exception the logical conclusion of that is when one party becomes single the other can only callously say "you're no friend of mine" since it's then, impossible?
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