I'm 35 and am loving my 30s!! Looking forward to my 40s and I KNOW than in my 50s you are not going to be able to tell me NOTHIN'!! (Hump, like you can now!! he he he) I recently celebrated a birthday and folks were saying to me "What is it, 29 again?" I was like "Heck NAAAAWWWWW!!! I'm 35 and proud of it!! I DO NOT want to go back to my 20s again!!"
I have a better sense of who I am and what I want at 35 than at 25, less concerned about what other people think about me while at the same time more sensitive to others (if you can understand THAT contradiction!) and much closer to GOD and what He wants from/of me.
Chi_ZETABBW, While I agree that some of the statements that you quoted in your post are the sign of immaturity, I think some are the sign of maturity! My Pastor likes to say you have the "guard your gate" (your mind) and watch what comes in it, because a thought leads to a feeling and a feeling to an action. I try very hard not to even THINK (don't always succeed though!)about divorce as an option for any marital strife that my husband and I may or have gone through. Sorry, I went off on that tangent, I know that was not what the post was about!!
Carry on!!
