Sorry to hear it.

I was in a relationship with a "bossy" person too. He had his idea of the perfect gf and tried to mold me into it. When I didn't conform, it got messy. He had other issues too.
But bottom line, it's probably better that it's over.
As much as B and J sound tempting, it will all go straight to your thighs.

Try buying a new outfit instead.