For everyone contemplating dating someone from the office.....let me just share with you my drama.
Several months ago I got involved with a co-worker after he confessed he had secret feelings for me. I was thrilled with the idea because I'd always liked him and I thought we'd be good together. Well, he proved to be extremely fickle and things ended up fizzling, though we kept it cool at the office. A few months later, he slept with another co-worker--who has actually become a friend of mine-- and that's when things started to get really sticky. Basically, they hooked up for one night. He now claims it was all a big mistake, and of course she ended up being really hurt by the whole thing.
WELL, several weeks ago, she and I and another friend of mine were out at a bar getting drunk when this guy shows up. My co-worker and I are off dancing when my other friend decides to grill him, and he tells her that he still has a thing for me.
But it gets worse......we all went back to my apartment later and co-worker number two and the guy get into a drunken fight, with her almost crying and demanding to know how he could f*ck her and not like her.
HUGE HUGE drama which we all pretend doesn't exist at work.