Nothing is a waste of time, because in every life experience, even if it's not pleasant, you'll have learned alot. Just think how much each party has learned, even just making their relationship work for those three years. While it's definitely depressing that it didn't work, the life experience that she has gained from it is invaluable. No part of life is ever a waste of time. In EVERYthing, we learn something. And it is all of that learning that makes us who we are today, and better prepares us for our next challenge.
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