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Well, it's a tough situation. BUT, I would have either tried to do both or neither, since it seems like the two ladies know each other. At least then you would not have had to explain why you chose one friend over another.
If it were me, and I HAD to do one of the weddings, my gut reaction would be to do the wedding with the closer of the friends and simply attend the other wedding as a guest. Then, you could have explained that the cost of the attire prevented you from being an attendant. You could have said that you wanted to make sure and be there on this most important day for your friend even if you couldn't afford to be an attendant.
I guess it just depends on how close you are to these girls...
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