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Im not sure what else you can do other than what you have done of explaining to her your reasons. Maybe after sometime she will realize that she is being silly about it. A part of being a bridesmaid is being there for the bride.. if you cant do it, you cant.. its better to find out now..
I had a similar problem.. I was asked to be in a wedding this June last year which is going to be quite expensive.. a little less than two months ago another friend asked me to be in her wedding this July.. despite wishing I could make it work I had to tell her no bc I was already in this other wedding and I couldnt afford both.. even though she is one of my best friends.. im sad that i couldnt and she is too.. but she understands i dont have the money right now since i just graduated..
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