[Sister Havana]

Just a thought: are there any service GLOs on your campus? (Examples would be Alpha Phi Omega, which is generally co-ed, Gamma Sigma Sigma and Omega Phi Alpha, both sororities, etc.) I don't know much about Gamma Sigma Sigma and Omega Phi Alpha, since we didn't have them at IU, but in my chapter of APO we had grad students and people getting second bachelor's degrees and non-traditional students as active members along with traditional undergrads. In fact a "non-traditional" student was president of my pledge class, and a guy getting a second bachelor's degree was chapter president my final semester. I pledged as a junior and I was nowhere near the oldest in my pledge class. That might be an option worth looking into. Good luck with whatever you choose to do.

(And that policy that post-bac students can't join any clubs is crap! If you pay the same activity fee as everyone else you should have the same rights to join things as everyone else!)