[NutBrnHair]

It's a very frustrating situation, I know, but honestly I think there is very little you can do about it. The only thing we can "control" is what happens at our own recruitment parties. (For that matter, we really can't even completely control what individual members say.)

Anyway, the only thing I would try would be to appeal to the alumnae advisors and/or the presidents of the NPC groups. Have someone like the Greek Advisor stress that the women of each group should be saying positives about their group & nothing negative about others.