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Well, as far as I know, none of our HQs have spoke out against lesbians with piercings making out with their girlfriends in letters. But I think we all know their policies on associating premarital sex with letters.
The thing is, it sounds like she's already got her mind made up that she's going to wear letters no matter what the people on GC say. And in that case, why ask for "permission"? It's not like her HQ can (or would) do much to her if they find out she's wearing the letters and they disapprove -- I don't think that's something they're going to take back her membership for, especially considering she's an alum. The major issue is what other people are going to think. And clearly some people are going to say, "Oh my god, how could you wear letters while being unmarried and pregnant???" What AlphaFrog (or anybody in her situation) needs to decide is whether or not that matters to her -- and from what she's posted it sounds like it doesn't. And that's all well and good, but it seems kinda silly to go around asking, "Do you think it's okay if I __________?" if you've already made up your mind that it's okay and you aren't going to take other people's thoughts into account.
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